Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Raahukalam and Yemagandam

Literally, my grandmothers days start with this only. She is an ardent fan (u can also say devotee)of AMR. For those of you who haven't heard about him - His name is A.M.Rajagopalan and he is the man behind "kumudam jothidam", a weekly magazine related to astrology. So, right in the bed as soon as she wakes up, she would take the book, which is normally kept under the pillow and would read the weekly updates . My aathukarar would always tease her regarding this, saying ur paatti would do anything if AMR says.
And she is a staunch believer of all these rahukalam, yemagandam and yogam etc...She would always insist that we should not start during raahukaalam and yamagandam or during maranayogam.
And we generally just shrug it off and do as we please. But, two incidents happened which made me wonder about these technicalities.
The first one being our trip to vellore during last May. We exactly started during Emagandam and that too on a day with full maranayogam. Hardly we had crossed the poonamalle bridge, when i heard some rattling sound. Told my aathukarar so and he just brushed it aside saying you are imagining things. We generally, travel with windows shut and with AC for air circulation, cos P is allergy to dust, smoke etc. So, the outside noise as such would be just negligible. In spite of that, i was hearing the rattling sound with full force now. So, just again told aathukarar and this time he heard it too. So, we just orangattified and checked. Just then , we noticed that the left back tyre had got punctured and was literally shredding into long pieces . It was about to hit the alloys , when we finally stopped. Just seeing the tyre as such , juices started flowing inside my stomach. Imagine what would have happened, incase we had been continuing , and that too NH at full speed.
Luckily we got two good souls who helped us with the process of replacing the tyre with that of stepney.
The same puncture story happened during the return trip from Bangalore too during November last year. Should i say, same yogam and same yemagandam.....
And again today morning when i went to drop my bro in the bus stand , it was raahukalam. Yesterday, he used my two-wheeler and i think forgot to fill the tank. Me, having immense faith didnt check while starting the vehicle and just dropped him and while returning back , got stuck. So i just opened the petrol cap and to my utter dismay saw that it was dry as a dosa pan. Bayangara kovam and helplessness drove me to the petrol bunk near udhayam theatre, and angeyum oru sathi. The bunk was closed. I just didnt know wat to do. Could have called my aathukarar, but he was busy with morning tender work , so didnt wish to burden him. So i just stood there , just watching the traffic . Another man was standing with his bike and when i enquired whether any loose petrol would be available , he replied that even he was stuck in the same position. Then came a man, from the petrol bunk and told me that there would be one in the 1 st Avenue. Adaadaa, i know that and i cannot go on foot with my scooty trailing behind all the way again nnu sonnen.
Apparam avar enna nenachaaro theriyala, he said then only auto would do nnu sonnar. I was quite confused between, whether he was giving suggestion or was offering to do one nnu. After hesitating for sometime i asked him whether he would be able to get it for me. Me all the way quite not sure, whether he would do or would just escape with the money. Just thought that i would take that risk. One automan came forward and said u give 100 , 60 for pertol and 40 for auto. That man from bunk again asked whether i was interested to go. Rather i thought i would risk 100 than being taken away in autonnu nenachu, "illa illa can u go and get nnu sonnen". He readily agreed and while going told me " Bayappadaatheenga, iam working here only nnu".
After what seemed like eternity both of them came with the petrol. And i offered them my generous thanks along with some money and left the same with some advice "to take proper precautions before venturing out in a two-wheeler".
Veettukku vantha same old archanai - Naan sonnen paathiyaa rahukaalam nu, en pechai kettathaanennu...
But still even after hundreds of experiences and adventures, we would still like to think it as a mere co-incidence....

32 comments:

Satish N said...

Well, everything has some meaning, but indha kaalathula yaarum adha nambaradhu illa ... nambanum naa, completeaa nambanum, namba koodaadhu naa suthamaa namba koodaadhu, I hope this logic works for everything we do in life rite ? :)

Naangelaam umaachiya thavara vera edhayum nambaradhu illa ...

gils said...

i the born on a thursday mathiyaanam..2.45 PM.....kozhutha rahukalam :D :D inuma ungaluku rahukalam epect mela sandegam?? :D :D

RamNarayanS said...

// we would still like to think it as a mere co-incidence

Yep. Adhu appadi thaan. :-) Maara maattOm.

RahuK-1.5 hrs, YamaG-1.5 hrs Guligai-1.5 hrs, MaranaYogam-Sometimes full day.

Most of the times, there is no answer to "why" of this. Periyavanga aedhaavadhu nenachchuppaangalaeynnu, we follow some things.

And it is also for a peace of mind in hindsight. :) (We won't blame the time when something goes wrong even when you start at a muhurtha neram)

TheUncanny said...

//i the born on a thursday mathiyaanam..2.45 PM.....kozhutha rahukalam :D :D inuma ungaluku rahukalam epect mela sandegam?? :D :D//

ROFL...thats damning evidence gils!

Chan said...

It's all in the minds. As Sats said...better to totally believe or totally put faith in god and go beyond it...falling in between is the real problem..even a anthill wud luk like a mountain when seen under the lens...

But i noe its easier said than done :-P

Soin said...

yellam mana brandhi.me always start at raghu galam and all just because amma says not to do.nothing happened.i guess you have that nagging doubt and start,thats what they call shani..free

Jayashree said...

It all depends on your beliefs.....if you believe that is the cause, then nothing will be able to change your mind....the same works the other way round too.

lakshmi said...

ahha Chennai Girl, Even i have one thatha at home with similar wavelength as ur paati's....
He would see rahukalam n yemagendam to have his daily lunch.. Appo veetla enga nelamaiya yosichu parungo...

For my 12th std exams, he forced me to start from my home 1 day before the xams.. coz my first day of xam was full of maranayogam it seems... So i had to stay at my frnd's place 1day before my board xams...

He has full set of astrological books(chinese astro, japanese astro.. nu ekachakama..)..

Oru oru veetlayum ipadi yaravathu irupanga pola...

chennaigirl said...

@ All - Naan evvalavu feelings oda ennoda kashtatha ezhuthina, orutharaachum , atleast for a formality kku kooda "acho paavam, ponaa porathu, be careful" nnu sollave illaye??!!!! :(

@ Satish - neenga actual ah enna solla vareenga, nambanumaa koodaathaaa? ;)

@ gils - same pinch me tooo. on Tuesday evening... Athanaalaye naaan nambalennu oru build up kudukkarthu...

chennaigirl said...

@ Ramm - //And it is also for a peace of mind in hindsight. :) //
Yaarodadhunnu thaaan ippo question eh? heheh...
//(We won't blame the time when something goes wrong even when you start at a muhurtha neram//
Very true.

@ TheUncanny - No comments for this...

@ Chan - //But i noe its easier said than done :-P//
Yep, especially with older people around.

chennaigirl said...

@ soin - //yellam mana brandhi.me always start at raghu galam and all just because amma says not to do// Bayangara rebellion oh? Yes, doubt irunthaale seiyakkoodathu appadingarthu, ennoda view.

@ jayashree- Absolutely right.

@ Lakshmi - LOL at your examination stints...ROTFL.
Unga thathaakku ennoda Paatti paravailla.....
Aana friend veetukku poi nejammave padicheengala?

gils said...

//Aana friend veetukku poi nejammave padicheengala?//

aio chennaigirl!!! neenga ivlo appavaia!!! laks paatha birend veetuku poi padikara aal polaya iruku!!

Chan said...

One Qtn, neenga telugu nu i read in one post, but how come ur tamil is proper tambram style??? awesome!!

chennaigirl said...

@ gils - Naan evvalavu indirect ah kekkaren, neenga enna kaatti kuduthuduveenga pola irukke.

@ lakshmi - Naan ithukku poruppu illa.

chennaigirl said...

@ Chan - my aathukarar is tambram. And my friends all were tambram except few, and especially in CA course , it would be full of them only. Thou telugu by birth , i grew up literally with tamil only. Athuthaan antha effect

gils said...

//Naan evvalavu indirect ah kekkaren, neenga enna kaatti kuduthuduveenga pola irukke.

@ lakshmi - Naan ithukku poruppu illa.//

maapla avaru thaan..aana avar potrukara sattaia pathi naan maranthuten :D :D

Chan said...

//maapla avaru thaan..aana avar potrukara sattaia pathi naan maranthuten :D :D//

hahahah ROTFL....

lakshmi said...

helo echusme... gils n chennaigirl.. kalaikae kalaiya...
One amazing incident hpnd on that day.. :). On that day, my birend was too tensed... I had prev. yr q paper with me(chumma jollyku), she mistook that for leaked out paper n revised the whole night.. :((.. Chumma irunthalae gummi adipaen, ipadi oru manguni manthiri kedaicha viduvoma...
I told her only the next day..
me:"hey antha paperla questions elam parthiyae... date n yr parthiya!"

avlo thaan, appo la irunthu enna partha opp directionla thaan oduva... hmm pavam.. marnayogam avluku nu appo thaan purinchuthu...

chennaigirl said...

@ gils & chan - grrrr....

@ lakshmi - ROTFL....SUPER PONGA..
seri neenga enna mark antha exam la atha sollunga and also ur friend tooo....

gils said...

//I had prev. yr q paper with me(chumma jollyku),/

ipdilam bitta poatu neenga studiousnu solikareenagla :D :D analum pavanga unga birends..unga pera ketalay elam terichi odiruvanga nenakren :D :D entha kaalagela padichel :D

TheUncanny said...

exsume....may i come in???

//seri neenga enna mark antha exam la atha sollunga and also ur friend tooo....//


Chennaigirl, naan solraen...

Miss Lakshmi Priya MM topped the college with a gold medal..and the poor girl managed to jus scrapped through......

TheUncanny said...

Gils,

//ipdilam bitta poatu neenga studiousnu solikareenagla :D :D analum pavanga unga birends..unga pera ketalay elam terichi odiruvanga nenakren :D :D entha kaalagela padichel :D//

I remember tat fateful day during college, when i went asked this pavam-looking-soda-budi-firstrowgirl, if i can sit next to her in class...She intro'd herself has as Lakshmi.I thought wat a pazham!!!! then i realised I cud have instead dugout my own grave that very day....hehe

gils said...

//Lakshmi Priya MM topped the college with a gold medal../

!!! wowoww...ithu over padipsa!!!

//when i went asked this pavam-
looking-soda-budi-firstrowgirl,//

LOL :D :D DDLJ karan joharku lady getup poata epecta irukum polarukay :D :D

//I thought wat a pazham!!!! then i realised I cud have instead dugout my own grave that very day. //

nenapu thaan pozhappa kedukumnu telivaaiteengala :D :D

lakshmi said...

// //Lakshmi Priya MM topped the college with a gold medal../

!!! wowoww...ithu over padipsa!!! //

helo! padipu... athu vera department!!!

intha gold medal matter a pathi inum gummi adikatha de..

ithukagavae.. naan sowcarpet LAL sate ku vithutaen... ippo happy ya...

chennaigirl said...

Seri seri amaithi, discussion track maariduthu, i remember lakshmi talking abt her 12 th exams, but TheUncanny , you speaking about college...Wat confusion going on
@TheUncanny - // and the poor girl managed to jus scrapped through......//
Unga varuthathula irunthu, i assume the poorgirl must be "TheUncanny" - Correct ah???

lakshmi said...

hey uncanny, nee ethuku vanthae nu enaku thaanae theriyum... super-figure-six-pack-nextrowguy ya correct panna thaanae... me one manguni mathiri, said ok to u.. mothathula rendu paerum correct panlae... seri vidu..

but Kavi... ushar... this gils n chennaigirl r trying to kozhi mutify to each other.. enga namba friend"ship" kavunthudumo nu bayama iruku..
SO LETS TOGETHER KALACHIFY OTHERS FROM NOW... DEALA NODEALA..

gils said...

// super-figure-six-pack-nextrowguy ya correct panna thaanae... me one manguni mathiri, said ok to u.. mothathula rendu paerum correct panlae... seri vidu..//

ROTFL :D :D laks..u've an uncanny knack of kaala vaarifying uncanny :D :D chancela :D :D gold medallist vera!!! kalakrel pongo

gils said...

/SO LETS TOGETHER KALACHIFY OTHERS FROM NOW... DEALA NODEALA../

alo...bset optinoa..open a blog..very eager to read ur posts

TheUncanny said...

// i remember lakshmi talking abt her 12 th exams, but TheUncanny , you speaking about college...Wat confusion going on//

Hey lakshmi, un dacalti velalam schoole irunthe panriya!!!..ading!

TheUncanny said...

//SO LETS TOGETHER KALACHIFY OTHERS FROM NOW... DEALA NODEALA..///

This doesnt sound like u de...ithula edho ull nattu sadhi iruka mathiriye iruku!!!

Lavanya Sriram said...

hey, naan adha pathi yosikardhe kidaiyaadhu :) dhideernu yen MIL o illa yen parents o will object for certain things. so appo maatum will listen to them for their sake. avlo dhaan. matha padi naangalaa seyyum bodhu we dont see these things. Adhe raahukaalathula dhaane ungalukku help kidaichudhu ? so nalladhum nadakardhu illa andha time la?

chennaigirl said...

@ lavanaya - Neenga solrathum correct thaaan :)

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