I dont enjoy cooking. Period. I just do so that i will have something to eat and i can give others something to eat. Sometimes, my hormones would work over time and i would be in the cooking spree. Doing all new dishes and giving juices, soups and all healthy items to P. Mostly i would always ottify the time with the dosa/idly maavu (P being hardcore idli/dosa boy helps me mostly) We would always have the occasional tandoor items and the usual sambar rasam and the twice a week kootu or keerai. Rather than the cooking i hate this planning process- Whats for lunch, breakfast and dinner? Since everyone in the household cannot have rice for more than one meal, this really turns out to be a problem. Naanum evvalavu alternates thaan yosikkarthu? Why people should have appetite for 3 times and cant it be for just 2 per day?!!!!!!
Previously parents / teachers never really tried to understand a child i.e i mean they just pressured him to study all the subjects. They never cared about whether he likes maths / science/ language / english. But now we totally empathise with them and if they dont study we just say he is not good in that particular subject. So we just want him/her to scrape through it. Ennada sambandame illama academics varuthennu paarka koodathu iam into the subject only. Similarly why dont they ask us women whether u like cooking or not / whether u prefer cooking or not. It is just assumed that all women should cook and not only just cook but cook nicely. It is the mentality of everyone irrespectively. And also while cooking u r bound to get compared with mothers/aunts/grandmothers/ or antha chitthi / periamma etc..... If i get a chance i would jus like to sit, laze around and have coffee served and breakfast served for me. Okay u get all these in restaurants but one thing is i like to eat dosa while someone would vaarthufy and give me chuda chuda. Fed up of having it blunt without the crispiness and cold ones instead of the piping hot. What treat it would be to have ur tongue burnt and at the same time having hot dosa one after the other with kaara chutney or kothamalli chutney. What not i will give for this alone.................
Previously parents / teachers never really tried to understand a child i.e i mean they just pressured him to study all the subjects. They never cared about whether he likes maths / science/ language / english. But now we totally empathise with them and if they dont study we just say he is not good in that particular subject. So we just want him/her to scrape through it. Ennada sambandame illama academics varuthennu paarka koodathu iam into the subject only. Similarly why dont they ask us women whether u like cooking or not / whether u prefer cooking or not. It is just assumed that all women should cook and not only just cook but cook nicely. It is the mentality of everyone irrespectively. And also while cooking u r bound to get compared with mothers/aunts/grandmothers/ or antha chitthi / periamma etc..... If i get a chance i would jus like to sit, laze around and have coffee served and breakfast served for me. Okay u get all these in restaurants but one thing is i like to eat dosa while someone would vaarthufy and give me chuda chuda. Fed up of having it blunt without the crispiness and cold ones instead of the piping hot. What treat it would be to have ur tongue burnt and at the same time having hot dosa one after the other with kaara chutney or kothamalli chutney. What not i will give for this alone.................